While listening to a podcast the other day while driving, I had to pull over to write down something he said,
“Don’t let your bad days make you lose heart, and don’t let your good days give you too much confidence.”
It sounded like he was quoting someone else, but it resonated with me. I sat in the car for a few minutes, thinking about the statement. Anyone who has trained dogs (or any animal for that matter) for any length of time, probably understands.
From the dog who suddenly “forgot” how to do an exercise, to the difficult dog who you have tried countless ways to explain exactly what you want and need from him. Sometimes, you just want to throw the towel in, get yourself a good book and find a shady spot on a beach somewhere. I mean, really, while people are out traveling the world and having exotic vacations, we are traveling to dog shows, living in hotels and eating meals out of food trucks.
But, those people do not get the high from feeling the connection to the animal beside them, strutting their stuff in heel position. They do not get to feel the love from their dog as he jumps up on them after a job well done. They do not get the satisfaction of finally seeing the lightbulb come on, after working countless hours with a dog on a new skill.
So, surround yourself with people who you can talk to on those “bad days”. People who will give you an extra little boost you need to try again or who will help you brainstorm yet another way to do something. Finding people who will be with you on the bad days, as well as the good days, are few and far between. But, these people are the important ones. This sport is hard to do by yourself, but it is not impossible. Nothing is impossible.